navigating a breakup :')) get out of a big slump with me and decorate my new home | few days on skye

Oh Niamh, sending you so much love! ❤️ Surround yourself with family and friends and things that make you happy 🤗 you've got this!

hey if its any consolation, I lost quite a lot of hair from being anemic last year it has grown back really quickly! Get your bloods tested incase of anything underlying but wishing you all the best from one scot to another ❤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Despite everything right now. You have your own little palace that you designed in such a personal and girly way. Hope that gives you a little comfort and confidence ❤ breakups are THE WORST but it will get better and the feelings will pass. Speaking from experience. You can do this!

First off, you can absolutely have a pity party. Break ups suuuuuuck. It feels like your heart and stomach have been ripped out. Take the time you need and do what you need to do to grieve and take care of yourself 💖

My husband died last year and I lost a little bit of hair, but it does come back after stress. I’m so sorry about your loss.

I rarely comment, I probably will delete this one as usual, but I felt like saying this vlog was strangely heartwarming. every single day has been a struggle for me, been like this for more than 10 years so it feels chronic, and this video makes me feel hopeful, and it's strangely motivational. This would be like a good week for me, really. Appreciating how you're not forcing yourself to do things that would feel extreme as of now, just to feel like before, and instead you're doing what's good for you atm, whether it's just getting dressed for the day or shower. It feels also very independent, I'm loving the cottage, lovely palette and furniture choice <3 thank you.

Sorry to hear you have split up. Sometimes somethings arn't ment to be. It is good that you are still friends. Ignore the hatters on social media. They are just sad little people hid behind their screens thinking they are tough and clever but would run away if you faced them. Suffering with depression i know it can be hard to motivate yourself but sometimes it is best to push and force yourself to do things.

Sorry to hear this… 🥺 Endings are always painful, take your time 🤍

Hi Niamh, i saw the title and was in shock only because i am in the exact same situation. My ex and I want to remain friends and still care so much about each other. We are actually going on a trip together soon (we planned before the breakup) and i honestly didn't think we would ever breakup. its been hard and shitty especially when there wasn't anything necessary bad about the relationship. I just wanted to say i know how it feels and it sucks, i am literally crying most days but deep down i know its for the best. Best of luck to you and allow yourself time to heal <3. Things will get better

Sweet gal, my husband and I have been watching your videos since our trip to isle of skye last year. While they’ve been our favorite little reminders of our favorite little place, I’ve also grown so fond of who you’re growing into and the way you hold beauty with the mundane, strength and resilience with the soft and quiet. You will get through this. Thinking of you and sending much love your way though this painful season- so proud of the maturity to remain friends and appreciate each others existence even if it’s no longer spent as closely together❤

I don’t usually comment but I wanted to send some love ❤️ you said you were worried that the vibes were bad in this video, but I found it so so comforting. Thank you so much for sharing this raw side of you - I think you’d be surprised to know how many people you’ve helped by being so honest. Just keep being you Niamh, regardless of whether you’re exploring the island, partying at festivals, or working through a tough time. You’re community will grow with you because they’re also going through different seasons of life 🍂🍂

Hey Niamh, this was such a treat thank you for being real, pushing through and posting for us! Sending you love all the way from Turkey ❤

Its hard enough to go through breakups in the everyday never mind you both have such big online presences! Just take your time, some days and weeks are easier than others. Take up offers for food and help, it really lightens the load. My lot and being with them were the main reason I got through my previous long term relationship breakup. Sending much love ❤️

I am so sorry to hear about this, I hope you’re doing well. I have been watching you for a while and you are one of my biggest inspirations and your videos have been helping me get through some hard stuff recently. I hope you’re getting through it well ❤ p.s btw your new wallpaper looks so cute lol x

I wish you all the best. I hope you feel better very soon.

A break up - even the good ones - is huge life transition. The way they force us to rearrange the ordinariness of our every day & how we loose a big chunk of our identity shakes us in really big ways! Transitions take energy - a lot of it to navigate let alone figure out what the otherside looks like! In this period we're not goal focused we're process focused. We bring our attention right down to those steps & micro decisions. One after the other. That's it, that's the way that is both stabilising in the moment & nurturing our well being.

the way as soon as the living room was coming together you could see yourself getting happier was really sweet! This was a raw and real vlog and your very brave for posting and just know all your fans are here for you!!

i appreciate this video sm<3 also going through a breakup rn and it’s very fresh :( it truly does sUCK, especially the mornings and nights, but i know there’s no other option than to go through it to get to the other side and we will make it!!! (have to make it because i cannot feel like this forever plz😭) but loved this vlog, exactly what i needed rn<333 we got thisssss!!

Oh girlll <3 I was wondering about you just yesterday for some reason, sending all the love and support your way <3 Break ups are the worst. You're fantastic tho<3

I am really sorry! Sending lots of love