Happy October as we decorate for the BEST time of year (Halloween!), celebrate Big Caden turning 17, and talking about the controc CONFUSED? HERE'S OUR STORY β https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JSZcFe6WhV4 Shop our MERCH β https://teespring.com/stores/jesssfam β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘SOCIAL MEDIAβ‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘ π· INSTAGRAM β https://www.instagram.com/jesssfam/ π· TIKTOK β https://www.tiktok.com/@jesssfamofficial π· FACEBOOK β https://www.facebook.com/jesssfam/ BUSINESS INQUIRIES: [email protected] SHOP THIS VLOG: Amazon Storefront: https://amzlink.to/az04B42zRlfCS LTK: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/Jesssfam β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘FAN FAV VIDEOSβ‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘β‘ β Disney Vlogs: http://bit.ly/disneyvlogs β 24 Hours Day in our Life: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5iItLrLr78A Confused? LONG STORY SHORT: My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married at age 19, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, and I want granted sole custody of the boys ever since. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 kids for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. Weβre one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on YouTube, you can start from the beginning here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oz91Pnzp6tg
ADVERTISEMENT
Self Preservation tip...kinda morbid but...dont wear a claw hairclip in the car. It is VERY common for those clips to embed in people's skulls in car accidents when your head snaps back.
Tell all of your children to be themselves they do not need to change to date someone they are perfect the way they are.
stop I haven't seen Caden in sooo long everyones getting so bigπβ€ hbd Caden!!
One thing i recommend as someone who's 18 and has had multiple relationships from the age of 12 to now, please remind them that they will never have pressure to rush into anything. It applies to everything. And even for break ups , which lets hope it doesn't happen any time soon , but no matter how much you liked a person , as long as you keep your self respect you will always be able to find yourself in life, as to be happy and fufilled, you do not need to be in a relationship or experience anything that others have and you haven't. And as someone who has always been very open with my mother about relationships , relationship problems , and intercourse , i know one thing is that , never ever push to know more, i doubt you will but its best to say , your kids will come to you when they feel the most distressed or at need. Seeing how well you are raising your kids i doubt they'll even hesitate to come forward and tell you about anything. And also , yes , keep their relationships private ! As i saw from experience, people knowing too much about your relationship , will put alot of pressure on said relationship to be perfect .
I love seeing a family with a this healthy relationshipβ€ 20:10 they look so cute omg
Can you please give a hair tutorial for the super cute hairstyle you had with the lace on your family's cruise? It was super cute and I've been asking for a really long time! Please get this to the top! Love your family and the channel!! β€
I donβt think itβs controversial I think itβs acceptable but Iβm also the same age as the twins π€·ββοΈ
Happy Birthday Caden π₯³
My mom told me the things she would like me to wait on (like sex, she always asked that I wait until I was 18) however, she always told me that no matter what I did - whether I did it sooner than she liked or not - she was here every step of the way. I never felt the need to hide things from her because of how open she kept our conversations. Even things I knew she wouldnβt like.
8 MINS AGOOO? OMD- Happy 17th birthday Caden ! π
YES THE BEST YT FAMILY EVER POSTED AND IM SO EARLY!! May I ask if you can do an update room tour for all of the kids and also do the kids have their own YouTube channels? Iβve been wanting to see some of Liliaβs cosplays!!Thank you and love you guys!! Edit 1: My opinion on dating: I think you can date I am Liliaβs age and Iβm apart of the lgbtq and I think that dating is fine as long as thereβs rules Edit 2: OMG LILIAS PUMPKIN I LOVE IT
My mom never had any rules on dating specifically, she said that she had dated in senior year and that that was fun bc she had someone to go to prom with. But she also said that she kept it too serious and it was a struggle when she tried to keep it in college. She also made sure my brothers were always respectful to their girlfriends, but never forced gender rules either. She also said that she would be ok with a non-straight relationship and made sure that we felt comfortable telling her that. βKeep the door openβ was also a prominent rule in the relationships when you got 16+ and that was also partly bc my parents made it a big deal to talk to the parents of the partner. This was the best decision they made because with talking to the parents they were all able to discuss what they wanted for their children. It all depends on what ur kids are like but I think ur doing a good job!
13:24 haha Addie π
Dating isn't what should be controversial, Kaden only putting his seat belt on properly again after realising the camera is on is what should be. Mom or dad should never keep driving when kids don't follow mandatory safety. Especially at his height without any neck support on the middle seat.. can say goodbye to any teen dances with one irresponsible driver crashing into you. Safety isn't negotiable or cool to neglect no matter the age.
teens dating, definitely agree with your points !! just be open and keep it around the same age groups, 12 months older and 12 months younger should be it. and make sure their educated, so definitely agree and it depends on the child
They're all getting so tall. Happy Birthday, Caden! π
You should get Simji to make a rug with the whole off Jess fam.
Only way I can think to fix the living room cable problem is to get an electrician out to put outlets in the middle of the room in the floor. Able to be done, but probably a HUGE pain
Best mom ever!
Omg so early I checked her channel and the checked my friends but saw it light up as soon as I got off it lolπLove this Happy π π»