The Problem with BPD in Relationships

My wife has BPD and I'm very, very happy! : ) It takes a lot of work, but with care and therapy you, too, can have a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship! Have hope, and give yourself grace and kindness. 9 years married this June!

I don't like watching one of these and thinking "Uh oh"

It’s not just the relationship, it’s the intensity that comes with it.

Also really easy to misdiagnose BPD with CPTSD and vice versa

It’s usually because they had a parent who related to them in a split fashion. Loved one minute, hated the next.

i think i had BPD for a while but i was ging through a period where i realzed that i had been affected by trauma based mind control and the more that became conscious, the more angry and frightened i became, and ppl who lied to me or about me to my family made me feel insane and hysterical. but my shrink said to get clear of those ppl who sought to undermine me, and sure enough i started to heal

I love the frame b

I reeeeeally want more content on bpd from you Dr K, you are a kind enough professional to be able to speak on this very sensitive topic in depth. As a diagnosed borderline myself I am especially interested in comorbidity with adhd, depression and autism, because I think the connections are much deeper because of just how common those are mis/diagnosed as each other and or together

I think these symptoms start from not having self-worth and validation during core developmental periods, particularly in adolescence.

I know a segment from HGG is impactful for me when it feels like I've been kicked in the chest. woof. This channel's been a great resource given a bpd diagnosis this year, thanks for all the good work

Had a BPD woman cheat on me last year after 6 months 🙃

I feel like a lot of people (mostly women with improperly diagnosed BPD) are actually vulnerable narcissists, and I'm skeptical of enabling content like this sometimes.

BPD is rooted in the belief "My feelings are irrelevant and shameful". This is rooted in their 'foundational code'

My ex thought i had bpd but ive looked into it ive never heard this definition, im confident and i dont think people have the credibility to determine my worth but i do become reliant on affection and when it's pulled away without decent reason im pissed

Me when Im barely qualified to talk about serious disorders but I need the views i guess

Man I have BPD + ADHD + other things diagnosed, though I can't seem to entirely relate to most cases with BPD. Asides emotional intensity and my episodes more self directed than outwardly directed to people, though I'm also exhaustingly self aware even in my episodes 😮‍💨

My bpd ex cheated online. He was doing some crap called findom😂

Worst thing for a BPD, is the Narcissist in my experience. Unless you can use the encounter to finally break that cycle. A repeat performance, but with a different ending. (This video btw is not an accurate representation of BPD. Far from it)

the problem? there's lots of problems

What are the connections between BPD and NPD?